Fraser Valley – As the Chilliwack RCMP continues to shine a light on domestic violence for the month of October, it’s important to bring awareness to our youth.
According to Corporal Carmen Kiener of the Chilliwack RCMP, Because teenagers are still maturing, an intimate relationship for them can be challenging and is more likely to include communication issues, jealousy, and insecurity. There is a stigma that Youth aren’t affected by intimate partner violence. This couldn’t be farther from the truth.
The most common age range for victims of domestic violence is 18-24 years (38.6%), the second most common is 11-17 years (22.4%).
For all teenagers and parents of teenagers who are navigating these relationships, the following are some red flags to look for:
- excessive jealousy;
- unexpected bouts of anger;
- controlling tendencies;
- taunting or bullying;
- moodiness;
- pressuring partner into unwanted sexual activity;
- threatening or causing physical violence;
- vandalizing property;
- preventing partner from being with friends and other people.
On September 28, 2011 Maple Batalia was shot and killed by her ex-boyfriend in Surrey. She was just 19 years of age and her story is a startling example of how domestic violence can affect youth.
The video – Maple | Documentary (2017):
